wisdoms

[mirrel]

The aesthetic of love is that
Somehow it’s some thing that is unexplainable
Want to put it into words……it’s not so easy..
Love that I’m feeling right now
Teaches me few beautiful lessons in life
You keep trying to find out if you have love inside you
You keep trying to find the people that you want to share your love with
Though what I have just learned is that
You don’t have to find these people
You only have to give love, doesn’t matter who the person is
and you will feel love
It’s universal …something you learn to share…not with special people only
It may actually happen to people who are strangers to you.
When you feel love..forgiveness come easily
When you feel forgiveness…you will feel contented as there are no burdens within you…
These are the special feelings that we can experience.
Humans are bound to have feelings…to feel love and to feel hurt…
A lot of things are beyond our control and unexpected
But if you learn to look at things in a wider perception…
You will probably see that everything is there for a reason…

[mirrel]

When you ask me a simple question
About the colour of the rose in the garden
Are you prepared for the answer given?
Or do you only want assurance for your confidence?

When I look into your eyes and say the rose is red
You shake your head and it drives you really mad
You shout back at me and insist that it is actually pink
The rage in your eyes is so powerful and makes me sink

You then go to the garden and heartlessly pick the rose
You slowly walk towards me and bring it to my nose
For the sake of being right, the unity of the roses is lost
After spoiling the garden’s beauty, who will gain the most?

If I give in a little and say alright,the rose is light red
The rose will still be in the garden and will not be dead
If you bend a little and say it is dark pink alright
Both of us would just smile and give each other a loving pat

If only we learn to understand each other and compromise
With no one stubbornly clinging to any destructing sides
We will probably learn the true meaning of peacefulness
Knowing that violence is just a beginning of all madness

[morningdew]

hello, mirrel :)

[mirrel]

::bye:: morninggggggggggggg dewwwwwwwwwwwwwww :P

[mirrel]

Kesepian…….

Berapa dari kita sering mengalami kesepian?
Berapa sering diri kita mengalami rasa kesendirian?
Kadang rasa itu datang ketika kita merasa kita ditinggal
Kadang rasa itu datang ketika kita merasa kita dibuang
Namun, pernahkah kita berpikir ke arah yg di seberang kita?
Pernahkah terpikir tentang orang yang meninggalkan kita ?

Kitapun harus melihat diri sendiri, mencari sebab atas perasaan kita
Kadang, orang yang meninggalkan kita itu malah memberikan yang terbaik untuk kita
Kadang, orang yang meninggalkan kita malah mungkin berasa lebih sedih daripada kita
Kadang, memang mungkin sudah seharusnya diri kita belajar untuk menikmati kesendirian

Kalau kita bisa dengan positif mencintai diri kita sendiri dan kita bisa menghargai diri sendiri, kita dapat menikmati kesendirian.
Kalau kita tidak bergantung pada orang lain dan kita bisa berdiri tegak di atas dua kaki kita, kita tidak akan merasa kesepian

Kesepian itu adalah bentuk negative dari rasa cinta pada diri sendiri, dimana kita akan berasa dibuang atau ditinggal oleh orang-orang yang berarti bagi kita.
Yang dapat menghilangkan rasa kesepian dan kesendirian adalah diri kita sendiri.
Kalau kita belum dapat mengatasi rasa ini di hati kita, walaupun ada beribu orang di samping kita namun mengerjakan sesuatu di luar kehendak kita, kita akan tetap merasa kesepian…
Penuhilah jiwa kita dengan mencintai dan menghargai diri kita sendiri……
Dengan sendirinya kesepian dan kesendirian dapat teratasi oleh diri kita dan bukan oleh orang lain.

[eLiZa]

kesepian :(
::nangis::

[nana_on_air]

[diedit oleh nana_on_air, 14-08-2001, 01:35 AM]

[mirrel]

to love you is to give my whole heart to you....
to love you is to give my soul to you....
to love you is to give my being to you......
to love you is not to expect anything in return...
to love you is not to expect to be loved in return....
to love you is not to expect to own you....
to love you is to free you to be yourself...
to love you is to free you to choose......
why is it so hard to do ?

[serenity]

because it is many things
and everything !

[airbiru]

berat dan susah,
karena emang kita ngga bisa sepenuhnya memberikan dan membebaskan pasangan kita jadi dirinya, dengan pilihan hidupnya.
Karena kita manusia biasa,
yang punya emosi, ego dan begitu banyak keinginan daging lainnya.
dan begitu banyak perasaan yang timbul,
jika kita sudah ada dalam cinta yang personal.
mungkin kita harus belajar buat mencintai,
dan menjadikan pasangan kita, dirinya sendiri,
bukan pribadi yang ad adalam pikiran kita,
bukan bentukan mengikuti keinginan kita.
tapi mencintai dia apa adanya.

[mirrel]

love........
when you love a person
there's no reason to be given
nothing to explain
nothing to deny
when you hold on to love
you don't hold on to the person
it's love that keeps the love inside
be happy when the loved one is happy
be a shoulder to cry on when the loved one is sad
be a friend when the loved one needs one
for love is loving...........

[Dewabrata]

I NEED YOU

[don_juan79]

Originally posted by serenity
because it is many things
and everything !

everything I do
I do it for you

[gaknyambungblas]

kadang ingin dewasa
kadang ingin bijaksana
dengan mencinta
tanpa berharap dicinta

tapi kurasa aku belum dewasa
kurasa aku belum bijaksana
aku ingin mencinta
dan kembali dicinta

hal yang terdengar sederhana
mengapa begitu sulit kurasa

[mirrel]

love..
let it flow naturally
when it comes, it comes
when it goes, let it go.........
when things happen naturally.....it's love
when things are planned........it's challenge
when things are forced....it's obligation
love me the way you want to love me
leave me when you don't feel the love anymore
for love itself knows what to do......